~*Hadddd to steal this quote*~
"it's not about tops or bottoms, it's not about Sir's or boy's, or Men, or Sex, or Desire, or slaves, or Masters. It's about you at the end of it, if you want to be good to the other person and help them, great. But you're the one who deals at the end of it. Don't enter this place with the intention of finding yourself. Enter it with the intention of losing it, now, get on the table, hands to your side."